I'm so sick of everything. Why can't people just be more straightforward and not beat around the bush? I've had enough of people telling me "see how" or "confirm with you again later". Don't they see that they are just delaying my progress of things?
For example, if I am organising a gathering, and I ask you to go, the most ideal answer I would be expecting is "yes" or "no". By beating around the bush, I am unable to continue the planning of the event. Firstly, I am unable to make my booking as I cannot confirm the attendance for the event. Secondly, it spoils the mood of the event for me. Trying to persuade people to go, while working against a deadline. Lastly, by confirming at such a last minute, I am obliged to make arrangements for you to entertain you. Like calling the event venue to tell them of the change in numbers.
I've had it. No more Mr Nice Guy. No more trying to accommodate everyone. I'll just be selfish and care only for my own interests since nice guys always get bullied.